Reality-of-life

  • Life is pain: feeling of being alive.
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    Life is pain: the feeling of being alive.

    If there is life, there is pain.  If there is pain, then there is a feeling of being alive.  If there is the feeling of being alive, then there is the hope of living life.  If there is the hope of living life, then there is the courage to fight with life.  If there is the courage to fight with life, then there is success in life.   Pain is that thing that no one wants in their life. But pain is like a glue that does not leave us till our death. Whether we want it or not. When we come on the earth we give the pain to…

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    Too much of anything is bad.

    Too much of anything is bad. Be it love or hate. Too much of anything is bad. It makes us blind, deaf, and handicapped. If we love someone too much. We try to bind the person with the chain of love. But we forget that a chain is a chain, whether it is of love or hate. we do not understand the feeling of others. It has another side also. Because excess love also makes us deaf, blind, and handicapped. We lose our discretion and depend on the person from whom we love blindly. So on one-side blind love make us a cruel jailer. Who wants to keep the lover…

  • How to deal with toxic people?
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    How to deal with toxic people?

    How to deal with toxic people? We mate with different types of people daily. In which for few we feel delighted, for few we have no emotion, but few are so negative that their behaviour sticks in our mind. And will hinder us for a few days. These are toxic people. That toxicity spreads in our minds and makes us mentally ill.     But if these people are those from whom we never met. This thought is good for relaxation. But let me tell you that such people are also present in the people around us. They may be our relatives, coworkers, or friends. But it is very difficult…

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    When breath becomes air book summary.

    When breath becomes air book summary. In the current phase of life. We all want success, a name and fame. But all these need patience, perseverance, and hard work. But many of our young friends search for shortcuts to all these. What pushes them is the darkness. And they commit suicide and go through mental breakdowns.     They look fit from the outside. But from inside they are that much hollow. If there is even a small obstacle in their life, then they crumble down like a playing card house.   According to a report from the world health organisation. The age group of 18-29 years is mostly affected…

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    God of love: The story of a young girl.

    God of love: The story of a young girl. This story is edited excerpts from the story of famous Urdu short story writer and novelist Qurratul Ain Haider. His famous works include ‘Aag Ka Dariya’, ‘Mere Bhi Sanamkhana’, ‘Chandni Begum’ and ‘Yeh Daag-Daag Ujala’.     She was born in Aligarh, India. Her father was a famous Urdu writer and diplomat under British India. She grew up in the rich western culture since childhood. At the time of partition, she flew to Pakistan.   When she visited India in 1956, Maulana Abul Kalam Azad, an integral friend of her father asked her. If she wanted to come to India.  …

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    8 effective ways to cope with changes.

    8 effective ways to cope with changes. What would you do if you suddenly lost your job? If there is a sudden problem in your business, how will you manage it?      Nothing is permanent in life. Changes will always come in life. The only difference is how you face those changes or challenges.     What does a person need from his life? It may be a stable job or a successful life or a loving family or good health and peace of mind.   What if this thing is taken away from you someday?  What will you do then?     These questions are not fictitious. It is the reality of…

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    Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity?

    Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity? We not only tell lies to others but also lie to ourselves. Because of various reasons like our happiness, overcoming our fear, and raising the social height in the eyes of others.     Mainly, by telling lies to ourselves we only deceive ourselves. These lies only give us temporary happiness. But raise many complications in our inside. It gets us away from reality.   In this world, the biggest lie is that which we tell ourselves. This is because we do not prepare ourselves to hear the words which give us problems.   Telling lies to ourselves, changing ourselves from…

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    What the blame “You are wrong” push you toward negativity?

    What the blame you are wrong push you toward negativity? Are you one of them on whom people blamed that “You are wrong”? Are you one whom relatives and nearby people blame always? Then you have to be aware of it. It pushes you towards negativity.   I believe that we should try to take the blame positively. Because it has many benefits. Like, it helps you know about your wrong side, it gives you a chance for improvement, and it helps to be a better person.   But sometimes people blame you not because they want to improve you but because they want to bring you down. Especially when…

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    When life gets harsh and hope starts to waver, what can we do?

    When life gets harsh and hope starts to waver, what can we do? We all know that life is uncertain and unpredictable. Life is not always what we think it is.    But the problem comes when we face back to back challenges in life. Our calm, positive, and restrained attitude is demolished. We are in the maze. We are not able to find a way, our hope starts to waver, life gets hard and unfair. In one word we accept, we are finished. It does not take long to become a thing, not even to deteriorate. As soon as the talk is made, every hope starts raising its head…

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    When life is changing every moment. what should I do?

    When life is changing every moment. what should I do? At times the things around us are changing very rapidly.  The ground under the feet starts to feel raw and it becomes difficult to work with the mind fixed on one thing.         It is not easy to control oneself amid anger, annoyance, and fear.  How is it that we learn to create focus even amid changes?  Instead of being stiff, be flexible.   There is a very popular story. A monk wanted to meditate alone. He went towards the river to meditate away from the noise. They boarded a boat and came to the middle of the…