Self-development

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    The 7 rules of the law of completion.

    The 7 rules of the law of completion. In layman’s words law of completion means, to complete every work on time. Are you also among those people who start the work but are not able to complete it on time? I meet with many people who are efficient and excellent in their work. But does not complete his work on time.     Being a scholar is another thing. But completing your task at a specific time is another thing. It is an art which you have to learn. Many students know all the questions from the question paper. But they did not find a higher Mark. Because they left…

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    How do overcome from screen time?

    How do overcome from screen time? Most of the time being in the company of some screen keeps us away from human happiness. Making the kids restless.     I remember those days, when our full family gathered, my Mummy with other female relatives and my father with other female relatives used to laugh and joke for hours. I also played for hours with my cousin.   When our father came home from the office. We sat in our drawing area and talked about things here and there. But nowadays the whole scenario has been changed. We all sit in a room but do not talk with each other.   …

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    We all need a true friend. How to find true friends?

    We all need a true friend. How to find true friends? Today I was sitting in my friend’s shop, and randomly he said being a true friend in life is essential. I was surprised by what he was saying. Because, at that time, we discussed his family life.    He said, yes, we can’t share all the things with our wife. I agreed with his words.  But I had a question, from whom we can  discuss all the secrets of our life? He replied, from the true friend. I say, how do we find a true friend?  He replied, by searching if we will find God, why not we will…

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    How to build self-esteem?

    How to build self-esteem? Use 5-minutes triple column technique. When you’re depressed, you always believe you’re worthless. The worse the depression is, the more you feel that way.      You’re not alone. A survey by Dr Aaron Beck revealed that more than 80 per cent of depressed patients suffer from the thought of self-dislike. So they lost their self-esteem. The reason behind that is. Dr Beck found that depressed patients see themselves as deficient in these qualities. They value most: intelligence, achievement, popularity, attractiveness, health, and strength. They do not know how to build self-esteem. He said a depressed self-image can be characterized by the FOUR D’s: They feel defeated, defective,…

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    Does living life matter or does age matter?

     Does living life matter or does age matter? The pleasant journey will come to an end, the human desire to become immortal is increasing rapidly in the country and the world.   Sometimes I wonder what the purpose of a long life is? Life should be short, But meaningful. Recently technology has been a major development in the field of reversing age. But nature is nature. What nature makes no scientist makes. We only do cloning, but not the same as god made. Even today, I remember that moment. When we visited the doctor for counselling after my father’s open-heart surgery. He says ” we are docter, not gods. We…

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    Immersed change with change.

     Immersed change with change. Change is existence, so don’t worry about change.  Change is happening without you; You are not needed.     You flow into it without worrying about the future. And then suddenly you will realize that centre within you, which never changes, which remains the same forever.  which is a very profound message. Immersed anger with anger, immersed lust from lust, immersed people from people, immersed the world from the world.   Don’t fight with it, be relaxed, because conflict creates tension; Stress creates anxiety and anger.   And you will get into unnecessary trouble. Let the world be as it is. There are two types of people.   One is…

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    Understand your strengths and start fighting with challenges.

     Understand your strengths and start fighting with challenges. It is not so easy to work with restraint and calm the mind at the time of disaster.  Most of us make decisions only after being influenced by situations.     So what to do so that the dilemmas going on in the mind and the problems standing in front do not dominate us.    Ups and downs are a part of every person’s life. But sometimes some changes trouble us. where the challenges start turning into trouble.   How will the life of any person come, it depends on how he is facing those crises. Or what kind of decisions he takes according to…

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    Leaving behind the past and moving on.

    Leaving behind the past and moving on, getting out of your past is not the same for everyone.  The events of the past sometimes leave such an impression on our minds, which remains with us for life.     Those events do not leave an impression on our mind, but what we felt at that particular time, we remember for the rest of our life.     The impact of an event that occurred at the time is different for everyone. Every person has his afferent attitude towards life and he makes his way of living his life accordingly.   Like two children of the same age, their parents separated themselves from…

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    Do not see the world through your glasses.

      Do not see the world through your glasses. What I say is right, no I am not wrong, I saw more of the world than you, so I decide what is best for you. We have many people who say so. It may be our parents, boss, husband, wife, and colleagues.     Always try to impose their advice on you. They give you their opinion without asking and expect you to accept it. Some others try to impose their decision using their authority.   But the fact is that every person has a unique identification. So their opinion will be different from each other. Wedding preparations for my…

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    Compromise is a weakness or time essentiality?

    Compromise is a weakness or time essentiality? It is a pity for such people around you. Who have made compromises on every step?  We think that people who adjust with each other and with people are weak.  There is also another side of the coin.      Meaning of compromise   When we heard the word compromise, suddenly we made a conception. That compromise relates to weakness. This means if any person does compromise that person should be weak. But till today when I am writing this blog.   I have never met a person who does not compromise in his life. Some may do more or some do less.…