Reality-of-life
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8 effective ways to cope with changes.
8 effective ways to cope with changes. What would you do if you suddenly lost your job? If there is a sudden problem in your business, how will you manage it? Nothing is permanent in life. Changes will always come in life. The only difference is how you face those changes or challenges. What does a person need from his life? It may be a stable job or a successful life or a loving family or good health and peace of mind. What if this thing is taken away from you someday? What will you do then? These questions are not fictitious. It is the reality of…
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Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity?
Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity? We not only tell lies to others but also lie to ourselves. Because of various reasons like our happiness, overcoming our fear, and raising the social height in the eyes of others. Mainly, by telling lies to ourselves we only deceive ourselves. These lies only give us temporary happiness. But raise many complications in our inside. It gets us away from reality. In this world, the biggest lie is that which we tell ourselves. This is because we do not prepare ourselves to hear the words which give us problems. Telling lies to ourselves, changing ourselves from…
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You are wrong: is this blame hurts you?
What the blame you are wrong. Push you toward negativity? Are you one of them on whom people blamed that “You are wrong”? Are you one whom relatives and nearby people blame always? Then you have to be aware of it. It pushes you towards negativity. I believe that we should try to take the blame positively. Because it has many benefits. Like, it helps you know about your wrong side, it gives you a chance for improvement, and it helps you to be a better person. But sometimes people blame you not because they want to improve you but because they want to bring you down. Especially…
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When life gets harsh and hope starts to waver, what can we do?
When life gets harsh and hope starts to waver, what can we do? We all know that life is uncertain and unpredictable. Life is not always what we think it is. But the problem comes when we face back to back challenges in life. Our calm, positive, and restrained attitude is demolished. We are in the maze. We are not able to find a way, our hope starts to waver, life gets hard and unfair. In one word we accept, we are finished. It does not take long to become a thing, not even to deteriorate. As soon as the talk is made, every hope starts raising its head…
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When life is changing every moment. what should I do?
When life is changing every moment. what should I do? At times the things around us are changing very rapidly. The ground under the feet starts to feel raw and it becomes difficult to work with the mind fixed on one thing. It is not easy to control oneself amid anger, annoyance, and fear. How is it that we learn to create focus even amid changes? Instead of being stiff, be flexible. There is a very popular story. A monk wanted to meditate alone. He went towards the river to meditate away from the noise. They boarded a boat and came to the middle of the…
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Why is life so hard? 15 philosophy of living life.
Why is life so hard? 15 philosophy of living life. Life is a long series of experiences that never end. Where we go through many types of feelings like happiness and sorrow. But of course, most of us would choose an idealistic way of living where there is no pain, no suffering. But we should know that real life is different from thoughts. Real life is very hard where we have to face many challenges. In the journey of life, we will also meet challenges that try us in different ways. In such a situation, it is obvious that we start complaining about why life is so…
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What should I do when nothing in my life is going right?
What should I do when nothing in my life is going right? This question is not new to anyone. Because when we fail, this question arises in our minds. We are nothing to be useless. This is a reality of life. Which we cannot deny. But when these thoughts will be remunerated in our minds. It engulfs us in big problems professionally and personally. Our life is like a chessboard. The black and white boxes on the chessboard are the different phases of life. The White box represents good days and the black box represents bad days. The chess pawn represents our resources for survival and…
