Personal development
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11 psychological tricks which turn you from loser to winner.
11 psychological tricks which turn you from loser to winner. Our psychology impacts our success more. Sometimes various opportunities await us. But because of our bad psychological recognition. We do not recognise these opportunities. For example, assume we go to buy a second-hand car. We like one car. But the price is higher than our budget. So we started bargaining with the salesman. But if the salesman knows about our curiosity and intention about the car. That we want to buy it eagerly or we are obsessed with the car. We lose the bargaining. And he sells that car at his price to us. Because it is…
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7 ways to strengthen your willpower.
7 ways to strengthen your willpower. Willpower is the starting point or beginner point of any task. It is the fuel, which helps to start the engine. And it is necessary to strengthen your willpower. It is creative power, which fulfils all our needs. Maybe it’s money, personal relationships, and spiritual enlightenment. In short, willpower is the key to changing your life. Willpower is just like the blueprint of your plan. Because without making a blueprint. You can not make a plan or if you make a plan. Then you can not properly execute it. You may understand it like our daily to-do list. Which we prepare every day…
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You are wrong: is this blame hurts you?
What the blame you are wrong. Push you toward negativity? Are you one of them on whom people blamed that “You are wrong”? Are you one whom relatives and nearby people blame always? Then you have to be aware of it. It pushes you towards negativity. I believe that we should try to take the blame positively. Because it has many benefits. Like, it helps you know about your wrong side, it gives you a chance for improvement, and it helps you to be a better person. But sometimes people blame you not because they want to improve you but because they want to bring you down. Especially…
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The 7 rules of the law of completion.
The 7 rules of the law of completion. In layman’s words law of completion means, to complete every work on time. Are you also among those people who start the work but are not able to complete it on time? I meet with many people who are efficient and excellent in their work. But does not complete his work on time. Being a scholar is another thing. But completing your task at a specific time is another thing. It is an art which you have to learn. Many students know all the questions from the question paper. But they did not find a higher Mark. Because they left…
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How do you overcome blame, resentment, and negative sentiment?
How do you overcome blame, resentment, and negative sentiment? Many times in our life we are blamed for things that we do not do. Due to that blame, we feel resentment and develop negative sentiments. And assume ourselves as the culprit of that thing. Which we never do and burn ourselves in the fire of guilt. This is a common problem and we all go through this event sometimes. But problems arise when we assume it right and spoil ourselves. According to me, there are two reasons behind this: first, our diagnosis is wrong. And second, we take the wrong medicine for the wrong diseases. Our wrong…
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How do overcome from screen time?
How do overcome from screen time? Most of the time being in the company of some screen keeps us away from human happiness. Making the kids restless. I remember those days, when our full family gathered, my Mummy with other female relatives and my father with other female relatives used to laugh and joke for hours. I also played for hours with my cousin. When our father came home from the office. We sat in our drawing area and talked about things here and there. But nowadays the whole scenario has been changed. We all sit in a room but do not talk with each other. …
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5 steps which give you the sense of fulfilment.
5 steps that give you a sense of fulfilment. After acquiring all the amenities in our life. We do not feel satisfied and happy. The simple answer is that our thinking decides our happiness. “If our wants or desires are uncontrolled then they increase day by day like mount Everest. Even if we get money, a house, and a car, we are not satisfied. In the book A MONK WHO SOLD HIS FERRARI, Robin Sharma told about the character of Julian Mental “I was surprised!! It was astonishing to see the person who had earned their name and fame all over the country by standing in court and…
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We all need a true friend. How to find true friends?
We all need a true friend. How to find true friends? Today I was sitting in my friend’s shop, and randomly he said being a true friend in life is essential. I was surprised by what he was saying. Because, at that time, we discussed his family life. He said, yes, we can’t share all the things with our wife. I agreed with his words. But I had a question, from whom we can discuss all the secrets of our life? He replied, from the true friend. I say, how do we find a true friend? He replied, by searching if we will find God, why not we will…
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New year, new life, new happiness.
New year, new life, new happiness.The most important thing in life is that you live life happily. Be happy. Make efforts that will take you towards your smile, towards good health, towards your dreams. The most important thing is to be happy in life, because when we are happy from the heart, then life starts looking beautiful. At the same time, in moments of sadness, everything seems colourless and desolate. You must have also felt at some time or the other that someday the sun’s first appearance. Two days ago I read an article written by Psychological Analyst Dr Iyer. In which, he writes, the past year was…
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How to build self-esteem?
How to build self-esteem? Use 5-minutes triple column technique. When you’re depressed, you always believe you’re worthless. The worse the depression is, the more you feel that way. You’re not alone. A survey by Dr Aaron Beck revealed that more than 80 per cent of depressed patients suffer from the thought of self-dislike. So they lost their self-esteem. The reason behind that is. Dr Beck found that depressed patients see themselves as deficient in these qualities. They value most: intelligence, achievement, popularity, attractiveness, health, and strength. They do not know how to build self-esteem. He said a depressed self-image can be characterized by the FOUR D’s: They feel defeated, defective,…
