Personal development
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How to let go of your ego and make yourself humble?
How to let go of your ego and make yourself humble? Do not be egoistic and release your ego or pride. Your ego eats you. It weakens you from the inside. This type of advice you heard from your childhood. I also give the same advice to my clients or those who want my advice. But when you question anyone that you are egoistic? He simply replied No, I have no ego. People never accept that he has an ego. I also do not accept it. But ego is that feature of us. Which comes from the womb with us and goes into the tomb with us. …
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How be you the best version of yourself?
How be you the best version of yourself? In this world, everyone wants a name and fame. But all can’t earn a name and fame. It is a fact. But on the other hand, this is easy for some. And hard for others. The main reason for not attaining name and fame is you, yourself. To see a dream is different, and changing your dream into reality is different. Because they need the best version of themselves. This means you have to draw an extraordinary man from inside yourself. And make your life prosperous. I have not told you to make your duplicate. I have only told you…
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What is hope? And its role in our life.
What is hope? And its role in our life. Do you sometimes feel sad? Because after a lot of trying and doing. You do not come out of your problem. You lost all your hope and broke down internally and externally. So, in simple hope is the anchor of your life. When you have hope you keep trying again and again. But when you lose hope, you lose your life. Hope is light in the darkness of life. It is like the oxygen for life. We must accept finite disappointment but never lose infinite hope. By Martin Luther King, Jr What is hope? And its role…
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God of love: The story of a young girl.
God of love: The story of a young girl. This story is edited excerpts from the story of famous Urdu short story writer and novelist Qurratul Ain Haider. His famous works include ‘Aag Ka Dariya’, ‘Mere Bhi Sanamkhana’, ‘Chandni Begum’, and ‘Yeh Daag-Daag Ujala’. She was born in Aligarh, India. Her father was a famous Urdu writer and diplomat under British India. She grew up in a rich western culture since childhood. At the time of partition, she flew to Pakistan. When she visited India in 1956, Maulana Abul Kalam Azad, an integral friend of her father asked her. If she wanted to come to India. …
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How to practice relaxing our inner threat detector?
How to practice relaxing our inner threat detector? Walking down to your home, you find a dark street. Which often be lighted daily. Your speed of walking increases, and your heartbeat increases. The adrenaline starts running into your heart and brain very fast. Your muscles are twitching. Your body suddenly goes into super active mode. Have you ever thought about why it happened? This is because the inner threat detector detected an unpleasant atmosphere. Which fills us with fear. And our body transforms into super active mode. But problems are created when we always detect threats in all work. Like, if a person without any reason…
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8 effective ways to cope with changes.
8 effective ways to cope with changes. What would you do if you suddenly lost your job? If there is a sudden problem in your business, how will you manage it? Nothing is permanent in life. Changes will always come in life. The only difference is how you face those changes or challenges. What does a person need from his life? It may be a stable job or a successful life or a loving family or good health and peace of mind. What if this thing is taken away from you someday? What will you do then? These questions are not fictitious. It is the reality of…
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The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: book summary.
Disclaimer: In this article, there is an affiliated link. If you buy from my affiliate link. I get some commission, but it does not add to some extra cost. So if you want to buy this product. The links are given below. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: book summary. The Alchemist is a novel written by Paulo Coelho, a Brazilian writer. The book is first written in Portuguese. And later translated into various languages. The Alchemist ( someone who transforms things for the better or who changes lead into gold) is a story of a young shepherd boy Santiago. His journey from Spain to Egypt in search of…
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Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity?
Lie to ourselves: a key to losing our identity? We not only tell lies to others but also lie to ourselves. Because of various reasons like our happiness, overcoming our fear, and raising the social height in the eyes of others. Mainly, by telling lies to ourselves we only deceive ourselves. These lies only give us temporary happiness. But raise many complications in our inside. It gets us away from reality. In this world, the biggest lie is that which we tell ourselves. This is because we do not prepare ourselves to hear the words which give us problems. Telling lies to ourselves, changing ourselves from…
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How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures.
How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures. Self-doubt is like a termite that licks our brain and heart slowly. Which consequences we see in our future life. Slowly-slowly it affects our decision-making power, increases our anxiety and sometimes leads to mental problems. So, it is important to overcome your doubt in time. For this, we have to first know what self-doubt is? How does it affect our heart and brain? And what are the causes of self-doubt? How to overcome self-doubt? Then after we know about 11 remedial measures to overcome self-doubt. How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures. What is self-doubt? In layman’s terms,…
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11 qualities to develop self-control.
11 qualities to develop self-control. Self-control is the trump card, which helps to win any fight in life. It makes us the owner of patience, compassion, love, self-belief and self-esteem. What is meant by “self-control”? It sounds a bit philosophical, doesn’t it? You might be thinking that to answer this, some theory or logic will be needed, but in reality. Controlling yourself is very easy to do. Truth be told, it is so easy and practical that even a child will understand. By defeating your selfish part, you get rid of the negative side of the evil that is inside you. The things that give you…
