Self-development
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How do consistency and persistence breeds success?
How do consistency and persistence breeds success? I would like to start this topic with a story of two students Mohan and Shyam. Mohan was a straight A student in the class. Shyam was an average student in the class. Shyam always wanted to become a straight A student in the class. So he copied the Mohan activity or process of study. He uses the same notes, tuition with the same teachers, and studies more time than Mohan. But he could never get ahead of Mohan. What was the reason why he was not ahead of Mohan? After a lot of hard work, why did he not become…
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Six questions to know if you’ve made the right decision?
Six questions to know if you’ve made the right decision? So let’s say you’ve decided to change your roles at work or want to leave your profession, move houses, or start or end a relationship. And then you start thinking, what if you’ve made the right decision? And then your mind is on overdrive thinking about everything wrong with the decision that you’ve just made. How do you know if you’ve made the right decision? In this article, I’m going to share with you six questions to ask yourself every time. When you’re faced with uncertainty about that important decision. Whatever the decision is to you.…
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What is the difference between self-love and selfishness?
What is the difference between self-love and selfishness? There is a very thin line between self-love and selfishness. According to me, where self-love ends. Selfishness has started. To explain my words, I give you the example of the COVID period or its protocols. The theme of the covid prevention system was two-feet distance and wearing a mask is essential. The government gives a proper guideline that, if any family member is detected with covid in the house. Separating the member habitats and Isolating them from other family members. And keep them in an isolated room. The advice is given by the government to protect another member of the…
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How to let go of your ego and make yourself humble?
How to let go of your ego and make yourself humble? Do not be egoistic and release your ego or pride. Your ego eats you. It weakens you from the inside. This type of advice you heard from your childhood. I also give the same advice to my clients or those who want my advice. But when you question anyone that you are egoistic? He simply replied No, I have no ego. People never accept that he has an ego. I also do not accept it. But ego is that feature of us. Which comes from the womb with us and goes into the tomb with us. …
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How be you the best version of yourself?
How be you the best version of yourself? In this world, everyone wants a name and fame. But all can’t earn a name and fame. It is a fact. But on the other hand, this is easy for some. And hard for others. The main reason for not attaining name and fame is you, yourself. To see a dream is different, and changing your dream into reality is different. Because they need the best version of themselves. This means you have to draw an extraordinary man from inside yourself. And make your life prosperous. I have not told you to make your duplicate. I have only told you…
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How to practice relaxing our inner threat detector?
How to practice relaxing our inner threat detector? Walking down to your home, you find a dark street. Which often be lighted daily. Your speed of walking increases, and your heartbeat increases. The adrenaline starts running into your heart and brain very fast. Your muscles are twitching. Your body suddenly goes into super active mode. Have you ever thought about why it happened? This is because the inner threat detector detected an unpleasant atmosphere. Which fills us with fear. And our body transforms into super active mode. But problems are created when we always detect threats in all work. Like, if a person without any reason…
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How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures.
How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures. Self-doubt is like a termite that licks our brain and heart slowly. Which consequences we see in our future life. Slowly-slowly it affects our decision-making power, increases our anxiety and sometimes leads to mental problems. So, it is important to overcome your doubt in time. For this, we have to first know what self-doubt is? How does it affect our heart and brain? And what are the causes of self-doubt? How to overcome self-doubt? Then after we know about 11 remedial measures to overcome self-doubt. How to overcome self-doubt? 11 remedial measures. What is self-doubt? In layman’s terms,…
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11 qualities to develop self-control.
11 qualities to develop self-control. Self-control is the trump card, which helps to win any fight in life. It makes us the owner of patience, compassion, love, self-belief and self-esteem. What is meant by “self-control”? It sounds a bit philosophical, doesn’t it? You might be thinking that to answer this, some theory or logic will be needed, but in reality. Controlling yourself is very easy to do. Truth be told, it is so easy and practical that even a child will understand. By defeating your selfish part, you get rid of the negative side of the evil that is inside you. The things that give you…
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11 psychological tricks which turn you from loser to winner.
11 psychological tricks which turn you from loser to winner. Our psychology impacts our success more. Sometimes various opportunities await us. But because of our bad psychological recognition. We do not recognise these opportunities. For example, assume we go to buy a second-hand car. We like one car. But the price is higher than our budget. So we started bargaining with the salesman. But if the salesman knows about our curiosity and intention about the car. That we want to buy it eagerly or we are obsessed with the car. We lose the bargaining. And he sells that car at his price to us. Because it is…
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7 ways to strengthen your willpower.
7 ways to strengthen your willpower. Willpower is the starting point or beginner point of any task. It is the fuel, which helps to start the engine. And it is necessary to strengthen your willpower. It is creative power, which fulfils all our needs. Maybe it’s money, personal relationships, and spiritual enlightenment. In short, willpower is the key to changing your life. Willpower is just like the blueprint of your plan. Because without making a blueprint. You can not make a plan or if you make a plan. Then you can not properly execute it. You may understand it like our daily to-do list. Which we prepare every day…
