Personal development

  • Self-development

    Do not see the world through your glasses.

      Do not see the world through your glasses. What I say is right, no I am not wrong, I saw more of the world than you, so I decide what is best for you. We have many people who say so. It may be our parents, boss, husband, wife, and colleagues.     Always try to impose their advice on you. They give you their opinion without asking and expect you to accept it. Some others try to impose their decision using their authority.   But the fact is that every person has a unique identification. So their opinion will be different from each other. Wedding preparations for my…

  • Motivation

    What is needed to live life?

     What is needed to live life? Often when we are in sorrow and tired from the ups and downs of life. The question is, what is needed to live life? Comes to our mind.   To come to this question in our mind is genuine. Because everything in the world made by God has some specific purpose.    Air is for breath, Water to quench thirst, fire is to cook food, the soil is to grow food, and humans consume and preserve them all.   So the sole purpose of life will be survival and reproduction. But humans are not animals. Humans have two things: brains to innovate new things…

  • Motivation

    How to live a creative life, and achieve your passion?

      How to live a creative life, and achieve your passion?   Why is it that some people have achieved so much in their life while some people have nothing? So are these people something special whose they have everything?   Why can’t you achieve it? What is it that is stopping you? The reason behind this is that most of us are probably not living a creative life.   By creative we don’t mean to be a great artist. Rather it means that. You dare to do something new, to start your business venture, to skateboard even at the age of 40, to get your book published i.e. to do whatever…

  • Motivation

    Fill in the blanks the endpoint of a motivational process is?

     Fill in the blanks the endpoint of a motivational process is?     The main aim of life is a success, money, happiness, good health, and love. We do everything to acquire these things. For making an effort to acquire these things we need motivation. In other words, our main purpose in life is to fill the blanks or gaps in life. Like, we want to live in luxury, need money, for survival, need a job, for name and fame needs success, to enjoy life needs good health, and to share our joy and sorrow needs companions and his or her love.   Here the old saying is fitted, “no…

  • Motivation

    How to forgive and move on in your life?

     How to forgive and move on in your life?   Whether to apologize or forgive, it is easy as well as difficult. Admitting one’s fault and forgiving the fault of others is what makes us human.  Forgiveness is neither a bargain nor a trick. Forgiveness is that surface of the mind, where both the one who accepts his mistake and the one who forgives wins. Forgiveness makes us better. Allah says  “I am happy to see those people who forgive, that much a traveller happy to see his lost camel in the desert. When his camel is loaded with all survival things is lost, and after a lot of searching,…

  • Motivation

    4 tips that help to understand your true value and self-worth.

      4 tips that help to understand your true value and self-worth. it is more important that you consider yourself valuable, and recognize yourself.    I meet with various people every day. Most people have one common problem. These people underestimate themselves.   Because they do not know about their strength. If they fail in any task and game they think, I can not do this.   When you think that, I can not do this. From that moment on, the cycle of defeat start in  your life. Because after one failure, your self-power decreases.  And when you accept defeats from inside. Your self-power decreases more. A time comes like that when…

  • Reality-of-life

    When life is changing every moment. what should I do?

    When life is changing every moment. what should I do? At times the things around us are changing very rapidly.  The ground under the feet starts to feel raw and it becomes difficult to work with the mind fixed on one thing.         It is not easy to control oneself amid anger, annoyance, and fear.  How is it that we learn to create focus even amid changes?  Instead of being stiff, be flexible.   There is a very popular story. A monk wanted to meditate alone. He went towards the river to meditate away from the noise. They boarded a boat and came to the middle of the…

  • Motivation

    If You Don’t Share Problems Now, You’ll Hate Yourself Later.

     If You Don’t Share Problems Now, You’ll Hate Yourself Later.   This is called life, some people are always ready to help others when needed. They do not hesitate to ask for help from others.   But some people completely cut themselves off from others when they are in trouble. They do not know. How to seek help or ask for advice? Meditation, yoga, a balanced diet, exercise and good sleep are very effective in relieving stress and depression.   But, by increasing the scope of your thinking, you will understand that it sounds good to say, but it is not necessary to do it every time and even not possible by…

  • Self-development

    Compromise is a weakness or time essentiality?

    Compromise is a weakness or time essentiality? It is a pity for such people around you. Who have made compromises on every step?  We think that people who adjust with each other and with people are weak.  There is also another side of the coin.      Meaning of compromise   When we heard the word compromise, suddenly we made a conception. That compromise relates to weakness. This means if any person does compromise that person should be weak. But till today when I am writing this blog.   I have never met a person who does not compromise in his life. Some may do more or some do less.…

  • Favourite-book

    Deep work by Cal Newport: summary.

    Disclaimer: In this article there is an affiliated link. If you buy I get some commission but it does not add on you some cost. So if you want to buy this product the link is given below.   Deep Work by Cal Newport: summary. Working in a distraction-free and high concentration work environment. Not only improves your skills. But it also allows you to achieve more valuable tasks in less time.      Along with being the same Shallow Work Time, it also creates a distraction.  By reading this book, you can learn to achieve quality work in less time, which is called deep work.    Author of this…